About Discreet Liaisons
Discreet Liaisons is a private adult dating site built for UK adults who value their privacy above all else. We connect genuine people seeking discreet connections, and we take our responsibility to keep every member safe seriously.
Our Values
- Privacy first: No ads, no data selling, no exposure — ever. Your billing statement shows a discreet generic descriptor.
- Real people: All profile photos are reviewed by a human moderator before being shown to other members.
- Adults only: We are strictly 18+. Every member declares their age at registration and we act immediately on any concern.
- Safe platform: Every member profile has a Report button. All reports are reviewed and acted upon.
- Your control: You decide who sees your photos, who can message you, and whether you appear in search.
Online Safety
We comply with the Online Safety Act 2023 and take our legal and ethical responsibilities to members seriously. We have completed the required assessments and maintain a documented content moderation and complaints procedure.
Online Safety Statement — plain English summary of how we protect our members and who to contact with safety concerns.
Legal & Compliance Documents
The following documents are available for members and regulators to review:
v2.0 • February 2026 • Includes OSA-compliant prohibited content clauses
How we collect, use, and protect your personal data (UK GDPR)
v1.0 • February 2026 • Formal OSA / Ofcom assessment concluding children are unlikely to access the service
v1.0 • February 2026 • Risk assessment for CSAM, fraud, harassment, trafficking (OSA s.9–10)
v1.0 • February 2026 • How reports are handled, escalation paths, timeframes, and record-keeping
Contact
For safety concerns or to report illegal content: safety@discreetliaisons.co.uk
For general enquiries, use our contact form.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is Discreet Liaisons free to use?
Discreet Liaisons is free to join for everyone. Female members have full access at no cost. Male members can browse, view profiles, and receive messages for free; sending messages requires a paid subscription.
Is Discreet Liaisons safe?
Yes. The platform uses SSL encryption, every profile photo is human-moderated before approval, payments appear under a discreet billing descriptor, and we operate under the UK Online Safety Act 2023. Safety reports are reviewed within 72 hours and urgent matters are escalated immediately.
Will my partner find out I am on Discreet Liaisons?
Discreet Liaisons is built specifically to minimise that risk: anonymous billing on bank statements, no social media links, no notifications sent to your phone or email by default, and the ability to use a nickname rather than your real name on your profile.
Is there a Discreet Liaisons app?
There is no native iOS or Android app. The site is a fully responsive web app that works on mobile browsers and can be installed as a Progressive Web App (PWA) so it sits on your home screen without appearing in the App Store or Play Store install history.